The Fam

The Fam

Saturday, December 29, 2012

Merry Christmas



Classic Santa pics, Harlowe did not want anything to do with Santa ever. I think every time we have went she has cried, but Tryst on the other hand doesn't mind being held by strangers. 


My mom and Dustin was telling me to get out of the pic but I just couldn't let go, ha.


Taking Harlowe for a little talk because we were trying to bribe her with Dylan's candy store after the pics.


Poor Tryst and Santa were wondering what the heck was going on.



Now that's better, I think she has candy in her mouth but no smiles out of this little girl.



The Santa looks pretty darn good, really realistic.  We have gone to the Galleria for three years to see Santa and its never a disappointment. I love Tryst's little lips, I could kiss them all day.



Now all smiles away from Santa and crossing her legs and everything, I don't know where this girl gets it.






My mom and the kiddos, she has been so good to Dustin and I, she is always there to help us out.





Does he look like Dustin or me? I think he looks like my dad. My dad had white/light hair when he was little and green eyes. I know I say it in every post but I love this little guy to pieces, my last baby, boo hoo, ha. 




I have had a lot on my mind this year and am hesitant to post it because family blogs are supposed to be  uplifting and fun to look back on but reality sets in and life is sometimes hard.

The shooting of children, sickness, loss of loved one's, recession, and loss of jobs: these have been hard times for many Americans and people around the world. Our family has had its ups and downs, Dustin and I are in a good place right now but we have had our moments where I thought we were not going to make it.

Marriage is hard work and is always a work in progress, we had two children close together and neglected our marriage. Not having time to connect with each other since Harlowe was born, we have probably had a handful of dates by ourselves since the kids and that finally took its toll.

My mother hopped on a plane so Dustin and I could have much needed alone time with each other to talk and reconnect. We talked and talked for three days straight, it was nice, I forgot how nice it was to feel like normal people. And I mean that in the nicest way, we sat and drank coffee, held hands walking down the sidewalk and just walked and talked for hours.

Reflecting on everything this year, it has been stressful because Dustin has had to put his career on hold to stay home with the kids because school for both of them is more than our mortgage. We have been on a budget and I have had to work overtime a lot this year. We have both been kinda resentful because he wants to work and I want to stay home. But all in all I am so overwhelmingly blessed each and every year.

No matter what happens I am always grateful and feel truly blessed. God has given me my best friend who is my husband, despite everything, makes me laugh each and everyday. God has blessed me with two of the most wonderful and loving children who are healthy. God has sought out a path and given me a great career because there were times when I didn't know what I would do with my life. I have the greatest parent on earth who I turn to when times get tough and I need a kind word. I have the best in-laws who are funny and have welcomed me into their family with open arms. I have the greatest friends who are always willing to drop anything to listen to me or make we laugh.

Life may be harsh sometimes and the world around us may make us question, what the hell is going on? But in the end God is always with me and no matter what happens, I know somehow it is his plan and there are always better days to come.

I know this post is probably a downer but I want my children to know God is always with you and no matter what happens you are a child of God and he loves you and you have a purpose. Always feel blessed and live your life to the fullest.

Friday, December 14, 2012

San Diego Zoo

My posts are whack, I am not the most organized person but I am getting there. I found these pics of our San Diego Vacay in October. 

Nice weather and the zoo is pretty fab. I cannot rave enough about the scenery in San Diego. 


Dustin trying to be funny. The exhibits were so cool because the animals were so close. The San Diego Zoo is humongous so take your walking shoes if you ever go but I highly recommend it .


Cute photo of the hubs and Tryst


I know it is excessive with the pics of Dust and the giraffe but he is never in pics so I have to include them all.


Harlowe and I on the sky train, she loved this. I think we went on this thing three times, I have to admit the breeze was really nice and the view, amazing.



A church we saw from the sky train


My mom and Tryst in front of us. Tryst was hanging onto the bars looking over the edge which made me so nervous but all is well, he landed safe and sound.





These pics were from a park near the zoo, Balboa Park, I think that is the name.


I love this little guy, I just want to hold him and kiss him all day.


My little monkey, she loves to take pics.









Dustin on a cliff smoking, blah. I love the church in the background but couldn't get a good pic.












These were lost pics of the Aquarium





She is such a character

I don't know what the heck she is talking about.




I changed the blog and tried a new template but I don't know if I like it. I guess I need to become techno savvy.